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Self Help? NO, Only HE Can Do It! HE IS THE GREAT HEALER!
"The Son of Man sets you free, you will be free indeed"
TRUE CHRISTIAN HEALING IS ACHIEVED BY ASKING GOD, THROUGH
JESUS CHRIST, TO GO INTO THE DEPTHS OF OUR MIND AND SHOW
US THE BURIED MEMORY THAT GETS AWAKENED BY SOME ACTION,
SOUND, OR EVENT.
We then ask Jesus to show us that this memory is a thing of the past
and, if it was truly serious, not take the memory away - but show us that
it is but a memory. The memory that hurts us over and over again.
If there is someone to forgive - a perpetrator - we must ask Jesus to show
us how to forgive that person. We are not required to forget the incident or
event. We must though, forgive!
Before all else we must PRAY, through Jesus, that HE be with us in our
endeavour to find the deep hidden source or sources of our troubles.
This is the perfect time to ask Jesus to be our pilot, not just our copilot.
We must ASK JESUS to remove the source, or sources of our
MISINTERPRETED EMOTION and to show us that this memory,
because it is in the past, and has been misinterpreted by us, is of
NO MORE SIGNIFICANCE in our life today.
We do not necessarily ask to forget the memory, only to realize that it
is but a memory, and was misinterpreted by us for any number of reasons.
After appropriate PRAYER we "focus in on" the emotion or disturbance
that is the problem. (Refer to "IDENTIFICATION" page )
DO NOT WORK AT THIS - simply read the list and wait.
Once we determine what the "the problem" is, we once again PRAY that
Jesus show us where the source or origin of this problem came from.
Did a PERSON make a statement about me? Did a PERSON make a
statement that I thought, at the time, applied to me?
Did I watch someone that impressed me, and somehow, some time,
decide to emulate them - be just like them?
Did I, in the past, get involved in "the spirit realm" with Ouija boards,
seances, drugs, a Cult? Thus allowing the demonic realm to
influence my life. IF SO, THIS MUST BE IMMEDIATELY RENOUNCED.
Having the EMOTION named, and its SOURCE defined, We now go
to GOD, through JESUS THE SAVIOUR, and ask him to correct our
outlook or view of "the problem" so that we may realize that this event
is in the past and is of no positive "value" whatsoever in our life today.
This "valueless thing" is only serving to clutter up our life and our
relationship with others!
YOU HAVE JUST FINISHED YOUR SESSION WITH THE GREAT PHYSICIAN!
Smile, Relax, and be assured that HE has worked a miracle
in your life. He does miracles EVERY DAY, you know.
It is a miracle each time a baby is born; the odds are millions to one.
It is an ongoing miracle that our Universe stays "in synch."
It is a miracle that after 2000 years HIS word is still read and studied.
It is a miracle that HE allows you and I to know HIM!
So, why are we so hesitant in accepting HIS miracles?
We do know that NOTHING is too big or small for HIM!
EVERYTHING is small, to HIM!
Familiarize yourself with all this information by reading slowly at least three times.
Look up each of the Bible Helps and read them in your Bible in context.
John 8:36 "when Son of Man sets you free, you will be free indeed"
Establish if the person believes in God. In Jesus. Jesus is GOD.
If so that person is "righteous".
Establish if person believes in Inerrancy of The Bible. (2 Tim. 3:16)
All Scripture is inspired by God -for doctrine, reproof, correction, instruction
The HURT or the PAIN before us indicates a history of__________________
What was the SOURCE or ORIGIN?___________________________.
Did person experience something, or witness it?______________
Real life, or TV, or_______________________.
Was a Spiritual choice made?_____________________________.
Or is the person a witness or victim?______________________.
WHAT ARE THE "EMBEDDED LIES"?_____________________________
Whose fault or guilt is it?________________. Is that true or not?___________.
Why does person think it their fault?_____________________.
THE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS FELT NOW ARE PRIMARILY "ECHOES" OF PAST WOUNDS.
Striving for perfection?_______________. Why?__________________.
Misinterpretation of fact that therefore has become a lie. Embedded lies uncovered.
Limited data to draw the conclusion drawn, therefore usually the wrong conclusion.
IDENTIFY THE TRUE SOURCE OF THE EMOTIONAL PAIN.___________________.
What is the origin of the emotional pain?_________________________________.
Reasonable, or manufactured?___________________________.
THE PAIN FELT IS NOT FROM THE EVENT, BUT FROM THE MISINTERPRETATION OF THE EVENT (therefore, a lie). BELIEVE THAT LIE AND IT'S THE SAME AS IF THAT LIE WERE THE TRUTH!
Renew the mind----and the soul is renewed. (Romans 12:2)
LET GOD TAKE CONTROL OF THE ERROR - DON'T JUST REJECT OR DENOUNCE IT. Recognize that we are helpless and otherwise ALONE in this painful state. When The Light touches darkness, only the light remains
WE CAN AND SHOULD WALK IN VICTORY BECAUSE -
We are (already beautifully) fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139: 14)
The very GOD of peace sanctify you wholly; your whole spirit, soul and body be preserved blameless unto His coming (1 Thessalonians. 5:23)
New Glorified Body Coming (Romans 8:23. Philippians 3:21)
HEALING SHOULD AND WILL PRODUCE A PERMANENT CHANGE IN LIFE STYLE, CHOICES, AND BEHAVIOUR AS WELL AS POSITIVELY IMPACT FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.
Jesus does the healing, and the maintenance.
No human effort required. Give GOD the GLORY!
Bible reading (2 Tim. 3:16) is the "tonic" or "vitamins" for future health.
IDENTIFICATION ~ IDENTIFY THE EMOTION
Our minds are for ever "playing old tapes," old tapes that we thought
we had thrown away, forgotten, or erased.
There are many "triggers" that cause these old memories to replay.
We supply this list to help identify the EMOTION(S) that are being aroused.
Often more than one emotion is being stirred by that WORD, LOOK, SMELL,
TASTE, TOUCH, or a SOUND.
Finding out what TRIGGERS the emotions arousal is THE big step in release.
Ask, then let GOD show you.
ABANDONMENT All alone, Overlooked, Forgotten, I am not needed,
I do not matter, No one cares for me, I am forsaken, No one believes me,
I'm abandoned for ever.
CONFUSED What is next, Confusing, Distorted, No sense, Why me, Lost,
What is happening,
DEFEATED I lost, never win, Too late, No way out, Will always lose,
No choices, No improvement, Might as well die, Can only get worse,
Someone is always better.
FEAR Death, Pain, Hurt, Of the unknown, Of what is next, It being repeated,
The future, Of telling, Of not telling, Enjoying it , Not enjoying it, More, No more.
POWERLESSNESS Unable to stop myself, Unable to stop others, Can not resist,
Powerless against pain, Powerless against force, Lost control, Overwhelmed,
What next?, Too small to fight back, Too weak to fight back, Going to die.
SHAME Stupid, An idiot, I didn't fight back, I should have helped,
I should have cooperated, I should not have cooperated, I should have told,
I should not have told, I enjoyed it, I should not have enjoyed it, I helped,
I should not have helped, I deserved it, I am guilty, I allowed it,
I should not have allowed it, I accepted money, I repeated, I am a filthy, Dirty, Cheap.
Too fat, Too thin, Too tall, Too short.
UNCLEAN Shameful, Perverted, Can't be loved, Unfair to love, Evil, sinner,
Dirty, Ruined, Filthy, Damaged goods, Never again wanted or loved, or cared for.
Even God has given up on me and doesn't care or want me.
UNRECOGNIZED Unloved, Not cared for, Not needed, Totally unimportant,
Absolutely worthless, I'm a pain to everyone, Valueless, I'm a loser,
Unappreciated, I'm a failure.
OFTEN NEEDED BIBLE TRUTHS
When the Son of Man sets you free-you are free indeed John 8:36
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you....
Matthew 6: 14
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths Proverb 3: 6
at noon will I pray, and cry aloud: and he shall hear my voice Psalm 55: 17
...Ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will harken unto you Jeremiah 29: 12
while they are yet speaking, I will hear Isaiah 65: 24
Every man tempted-own lust-brings sin-sin brings separation James 1:14-15
Go therefore and teach them all things HE taught us Matthew 28:19-20
Spirit of The Lord on me to Preach, Heal the brokenhearted, preach deliverance
YOU ARE - Fearfully (Beautifully) and wonderfully made Psalm 139: 14
Be not of this world but Renew your mind that which is good, acceptable
Romans 12: 2
New glorified body, fashioned like His glorious body Philippians 3:21
With Love of Christ-beyond understanding, ye can be filled with
fullness of God Ephesians 3: 19,20
Being in Christ- a New Creation-old passed away, ALL THINGS NEW! Corinthians. 17
All scripture -inspiration of God -profitable for doctrine, reproof correction,
instruction and righteousness Timothy. 3: 16
After suffer for while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you….1 Peter 5:10
Is any among you afflicted? Let him pray. Is any merry? Let him sing psalms.
James 5: 13
Today's suffering not comparable to glory to be revealed in us.. Romans 8: 18
I am come a light into the world, that whosoever believeth on me should
not abide in darkness John 12: 46
Jesus said unto him, If though canst believe, all things are possible
to him that believeth Mark 9:23
Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: Psalm 55: 22
The Lord also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble
Psalm 9: 9
Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart:
wait, I say, on the Lord Psalm 27: 14
I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee Hebrews 13: 5
He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds Psalm 147: 3
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Opinions From The Medical World
Psychotherapists, Psychiatrists and Psychologists are now accepting the Reality
scendent. Here psychology points to
something that is above itself".
Dr. C.G. Jung of Zurich(2) said "Among all my patients over the age of thirty- five years of age,
There is not one whose final problem is not that of religious attitude. Eachot cured until he has found it."
Dr. C.G. Jung also wrote "It seems to me as if a parallel with the decline of religious
Life the neurosis have increased noticeably".
Dr. March(3) writes, " True Christian counseling is in the last analysis an event
Which is operative beyond all consciousness, independent of any planned
Pastoral endeavor. Pastoral work so understood stands beyond all
psychotherapy and all discussion. Hence there is also no such thing as a
Prof. Schulz(4) writes, "The genuine religious experience remains unassailable by
Psychological efforts at illumination and analysis."
(1)(2)Quote from Dr.Bitter's book "Psychotherapie und Seelsorge"
(3)(4)Quote from the monthly publication "Der Weg zur Seele" pg.322, November 1951.
If You Have A Headset You Can Talk
With Donald F. Dutkowski